Attitudes

 

We all have attitudes towards events that happen in our life right? I believe so. Difficult times, and or choices we have to make can really have an effect on our feelings about ourselves and how we are perceived towards others. I believe that if we are able to get a handle on our reactions, and adjust our attitudes towards difficult events, we can be far more prosperous.

I was dealt a deck of cards on Monday that made me want to binge eat, and wallow in my sorrows. I told myself, wait, you need to process before you react to the cards you were dealt, and think of how you can effectively solve your problems. I found that all the anxiety I was feeling, all of the angst and the “What am I going to dos” turn into, I can get through this. Hassels  happen everyday. Shoot about 10 happened to me yesterday! I still found time to smile!

So I hope this encourages someone to turn the frown and complaints around and actively process your issues, and find that the solution may be in front of your face while you were too busy wallowing in the negative what if’s. Just a little pick me up for those who are feeling down and out! Hope it helps!

School has started and I will try to keep up with my blog as much as I can, but It may be put in the pile of I can do it later. I have had to look at all of my commitments and had to decide what is more of a priority in my life at the moment.

School is number one, my job is too. I have commitments with my job and volunteering, and working out. My dog is up there high too. Then comes the little things, vacations, friendships and events, outings, fantasy football, ect. Those go on the back burner. Sometimes this is needed. So you wont over commit and under produce. I will keep you guys posted as much as I can!

 

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6 thoughts on “Attitudes

  1. Chels says:

    Glad you found time to process things and smile in the midst of what was going on. Good luck with the new school year!!

  2. Tracie says:

    I think it’s imperative that you prioritize events in your life. It’s a smart move. Without setting a hierarchy we would be all over the place trying to complete tasks that could have waited a week or two. School and work are definitely the most important because that is your bread and butter. Without these two, all of the other pleasantries are not possible. I think more people should use this approach because believe it or not, many people are unable to think this way. When I was doing social work, I had so many tasks due that I was forced to think this way. I made a list of all of my obligations and started from the most important to the least important. If something can wait, it’s gonna wait. You have to do what’s best for you!! Great post!!

    • Sharde says:

      Thanks! That is exactly what I was referring to! Time management! It is essential to your performance as well as your success. How much more of school do you have before you finish up? I’m sure you are almost finished.

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