The 3rd times a charm!
That is for sure! This weekend, I got the prestigious honor of being there when my oldest brothers 1st child was born. I was so excited. I mean, life is truly amazing. Kayla Michelle Davis was born around 5pm on 08/11/13, weighing 8lbs 13oz and being 22 inches long! She is a pretty little girl, and the new parents couldn’t be any happier. I have a niece (4) and a nephew(1) by my younger brother.
I pretty much spent the weekend doing that and being a complete bum inside the house. I occasionally made up my mind to go somewhere, but ended up finishing my Amazon Prime Borrowed book on my kindle and relaxing. Sometimes after waking up at 5am non-stop and going to be late, can take a toll.
Some other things I want to address are on the emotional side. I am typically the type to be shy to reveal my real feelings about things, due to them largely being misinterpreted. I am a very passionate being, and I tend to not speak up at opportune times and sometimes that has a negative effect in my personal life. It’s a defense mechanism I will be working on for my entire life. It took me a while to not be a quiet being (I’m loud and funny now) Being an adult and mature. If I am interested in you, then I somewhere somehow deeply believe in you. It will show and I will even tell you so in so many ways. However, that is not to be regarded as being weak. If I feel, or see that something is wrong, or I do not feel is right, then, I will ask questions. Now it will not be an FBI interrogation, however, I will be direct. Direct is what I do very well. It cut’s out the possibility of deflection.
I just want people to understand that if I am passionate about you, I will have many questions for you regarding your life, because I am interested. My dating life is a bit of a comedy at the moment, and I am not getting what I require from people. In order for me to truly get what I want, I have to REQUIRE it from someone. I use to think that my requirements did not have to be stated. Unfortunately the way these guys are set up, you do. So at the moment.
I like someone, I am unsure of his intentions and I am afraid to ask. (Cue that shy introverted girl) Chances are I know it is going to be one of those, “I’m not where I want to be” speeches, because I have the most impeccable way of meeting and liking the right guy at the WRONG time in his life. When are you dimwits going to realize that you will forever be working on yourselves, that that is a life-long process! I am a person wants you for your intellectual worth not what state you are in materialistically, I evidently made that assessment when I first got to know you. I see things like this: even when my physical, and your physical attributes wear away we still have a mental connection and have that person you can talk to about anything, about everything. I’m looking at you for your worth, not what you are currently worth! You say you want success, well, so do I. You aren’t where you want to be career – wise, financially. Hello! Me too! We are all getting there or working on making our lives more enriched. Why can’t we cake this vertical climb together? I truly don’t get it. That will forever baffle me. I Hope that works out for you and if it does, great. But I’m over here believing in you being your biggest cheerleader and you don’t seem to see me. I am invisible. Thanks for all of your consideration of my awesomeness. I just hope one day it seriously is worth something to someone other than myself, and I truly have the treatment (basics) that I desire. Nothing irrational, just simple and for me kind of thing. Can you tell I am frustrated? I am. I am sure dating will get better, but for now it is not.
4 thoughts on “I’m an Aunt…again!”
lol…I was an aunt 3 times before I had my first at 29! If I don’t have a second one by 32, I’m not having one. I waited a little late to get married at 28. Partying and single gal life had its hold on a sistah until the late 20’s. lol I’m glad though. Those were some good times!
Hey well. I guess I’ll be getting a late start. I’m 28. Lol
I’m sorry that you are going through this situation. I understand, believe me! We are trying to find the right guy and it seems that they are so busy and only want to work on themselves. It took my husband four years to propose to me. We were both getting our lives together in a long distance relationship, so I had the space to do whatever I wanted. It takes guys a long time to get to that point. It is really frustrating and you want to just kidnap them and have a gunshot wedding, but sometimes we are left waiting, or looking for other companionship. One thing I can say that I find comfort in, when I stopped looking and just enjoyed my life and talked to God, he just placed my husband in my life. I didn’t know him at first. We met by chance. It took his behind awhile to propose, but I knew just the way he entered my life that God placed him there for a reason. I’m sorry to get all glorified and holy ghost on yah, but I’m being as real as I can be right now. Ask HIM to send you your soul mate and it will happen, maybe not today, or tomorrow, but when it is supposed to happen. You will know, trust!!!
Lmaooo exactly! I’m hanging in there but there are days I’m done with it all!!!!